Yail, that is why emotional detachment is so important. Don't get down over them being mean....don't get excited when they are nice. That is what detachment is....not reacting emotionally either way to what they say and do.
If you can only DB when she is angry and mean....she will manipulate you anytime she wants.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
