I haven't posted for a while, been reading a lot of other peoples sitchs and it's really helped giving me perspective on my own. There are so many similarities to what I'm experiencing.
My W has been very "friendly" and cordial possibly driven by guilt? We haven't had any R talk for 6 months and have had very little contact on the last 3 including zero for 5 weeks. I don't reach out to her at all. I'm just getting on with my own life & GAL activities. I'm Really enjoying my weekends again! It's been quite a few years...
Recently she had come to the house a couple of times to pick up some mail, more of her personal items and to pet our cats. On arrival and departure she has been coming in for a hug. I'm nonchalant and embracing her like I would someone I have just met. I never lead in for physical connection & do what I can to create space or obstacles between us so she can't come in for a hug.
Is this something I should talk to her about or just let the actions speak?
H:50 (me) W:44 M:12 T:22 BD: 08/2018 W Moved out 08/2018
