I wrote out a long explanation about how I feel the same way you do - that intellectualizing is actually a great benefit and approach, and that it is simply different. But in an effort to not hijack or start any big back-and-forth I'll say only this.
Perhaps you and I approach this differently than others on the board, but it's a path that we have chosen for ourselves. Cheers to you on your path Paco, and I hope you and your friend have many more enlightening conversations
