I don't really have anything new. Thought I'd start a new thread. I don't get on here much. Too busy living life, but I do come back once in awhile when I need reinforcement. It's interesting being on this side now. I see so many newcomers making the same mistakes that I did. I feel like I did what I could after the first few weeks. It still didn't save my marriage. Quit frankly, the odds are against you by the time you get to BD--especially in non-wayward situations. However, I have saved myself. I'm doing really well. I'm still in limbo because we haven't sold the second house yet. That will clear up, and I'll have a great life with my daughters. GAL, 180, detach. Detaching meant not only no expectations but also no hope for me. It allowed me to move forward. I still haven't been out on a physical date, but I have a few lined up for after my eventual move.
Last edited by job; 03/25/1910:02 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread
