Attracting the WW back ?

[gzabetas]

So G, at this point, why are you still trying to save this? I am pretty sure that voodoo and witchcraft would be a dealbreaker for me.

So Steve85 you are correct. This voodoo stuff sent me over the line of trying.

Why may I still be ambivalent? The 3 year old we have together, who is going thru some hard times because of this.
And the old person I knew and fell in love with - before the "alien abduction" as is said here on this board.

I think deep down there is a person that once held me in respect and saw a future. But she is gone now.
I need to face that and mourn it and move forward.

I also believe that all these items (affair, voodoo etc) come from alot of pain inside of her.
I now know I cant fix her. I can only save what I have left inside me.

It upsets me that no matter how many red flags of concern that I raise for her sanity no one here in the real world (unlike this board which is very helpful) raises an eyebrow.
My kid will be spending many days with this "broken" person and I dont know what that can be like. She forgets to feed him, appointments etc. I have been picking up all her work since she went AWOL with girls night out, extra shifts at work, gym visits twice a day every day etc.

As many others mentioned here, I too have lost alot of weight. I even lost 2 teeth that simply broke and had to get them extracted. Eating out of one side now. I feel like Jeff Goldblum in The Fly where he is falling apart.

So 2 different psychologists she saw, and no one saw her problems.

Doing research on her symptoms I think she has BPD. I told her parents to keep an eye on her post divorce (when that happens) because I will have to move back to the States for work. They didnt seem worried either.

Darn, what does it take to let people know that the person next to you is not OK in their head.
She doesnt want my help, but I sure hope someone would step in and take care of her.

Yes that is a classic example of "rewriting history". This really is how she sees things right now. She remembers nothing but bad stuff and has forgotten all of the good. Eventually she will remember the good too, but it's going to take her a long time. All you can do is step back and be patient.

Very well put AnotherStrander. Your faith in humanity really gives me hope. For real. Thank you for that.

Believe it or not, I know someone that practiced similar magic for their own well being and manifestation of desires. They would cast attraction and love spells to try and lure certain people to them. So, I wouldn’t be surprised that a WW deep in the fog would try anything to keep things going with their affair partner.

Yup, I think the voodoo I found in my house, which was pointed out to me by neighbors, this is how naive I am, is an indication of that fog Curtis. Along with visits to psychics that she does lately.
Anything to keep that affair going. Very well said