G, I'm detecting resignation and defeat in your posting. You need to understand that divorce is not a finality. It's just another stage to go through. I sense you DB'd trying to avoid divorce rather than to save yourself. Here is the thing, you need to DB for you, not for her or the MR. DB through the D. DB after the D. Keep being a man only a fool would leave and she might eventually wake up to that, even after D.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018