Ugh. I don't know how much more of this I can take. A little backstory: a few months ago I went away for a three day weekend with CMM. He ended up having a snit fit about people calling and texting me while we were gone.
Now I'm not talking about anything excessive. Things like my adult Aspergers son calling a couple of times to share a funny or interesting piece of news, my best friend calling to ask a question. It's not like my phone was ringing off the hook or anything - just what I would consider a normal amount of interaction. He felt that I should have told everybody to only call for emergencies, I felt that was extreme.
Now I'm on another three day weekend trip with CMM. Our first night here my youngest son has a true emergency ( as in spend the night in jail type). The next day I had to ask my best friend to go help him retrieve his car, which she kindly took a couple of hours out of her day to do. I texted his siblings to enlist their support for him until I get back. There really wasn't anything that could be done about it this weekend so I chose to stay and try to continue to enjoy the weekend ( it's his birthday next week and he'd been planning on this trip for a long time.)
Today I missed a call from my friend so I called her back (I was concerned she might be calling about my son). She wasn't and after a brief (less than five minutes) conversation I cut her off.
CMM got incensed and basically pouted the entire rest of the evening, through a fancy dinner out and after we got back to our room. I finally called him out on how he was acting (I was getting tired of doing all the reaching out and getting nothing back) and we ended up having a big fight.
So basically, he ruined the entire evening because I had a single five minute phone call with my best friend who had just done me a huge favor the day before.
He's so OCD, he just can't let go of things, and he doesn't even understand that he HAS OCD. AAARRGH!!!
