Attracting the WW back ?

[gzabetas]

Approaching our final days as a couple as it seems. Our lawyers and we are set to meet 1st week of April.
I tried really hard DBing my ass off and every other thing I could do, becoming a new better me. But this person is so determined to get rid of me, it is unavoidable. One ounce of that effort into our relationship would have worked wonders...

Anyway, looking back at everything she has thrown at me as being such a bad person, I give you the following example, which always comes in our fights, for your evaluation. It will show you how biased and skewed their perspectives are.
Here goes:

When we were having our baby son's birth, it was a very difficult time. The surgeon came and told me you should have never conceived, I cant believe you guys have a child. She almost didnt make it and I was worried sick outside.
She was losing alot of blood and turning white. We were in a Greek public hospital. I had to bribe doctors a lot of money to give her attention.
I was making all sorts of deals to get her blood transfusions. The nurses would be lacking and I would have to squeeze the plasma to stop it from thickening and not dripping. Every minute was critical.
I slept on the cold cement floor next to her bed, for days. No change of clothes. I was a ghost of a man and at some point
I fainted from exhaustion. She had stabilized. The put me in a bed in another room for a few hours, to lower my blood pressure.
Her mother calls me and complains why I didnt get her flowers yet. Oh right I said, I totally forgot, ran out and got her flowers.

Yesterday she told me,. "you never loved me, my mom had to tell you to get me flowers when we were giving birth"

I add this story, because many of us take a look at ourselves, following the doctrine that, for your wife to leave, there must have been your side of the problems. Go work on those. And we go to work even more on ourselves.
But sometimes it doesnt matter. We have a person who is determined to find only faults in our behaviors.