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“I’m not sure we have a starting place to go back to”
response "I am not sure either. I just know with absolute certainty that I do not want to be in this sitch again"

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“I stepped back to observe us and everything started to crystallize”


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“This whole situation thing makes me sad”
response "It is very sad."

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“You have to give yourself time too”
"Yes, I think I will take some time to process everything"

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“I will be happier if you are out of my life”
response "I want us both to be happy. Do what you need to make yourself happy."

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“Kids are resilient”
response "some kids are very resilient, ours will have no choice. It is your choice to put them through this SIGNIFICANT stress."

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“I thought about saying no when you asked me to marry you”
response "That must have been a hard decision."

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“I only said yes because I thought that was what family and friends expected of me”
response "family and freinds make things complicated"

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“Separation is the only way I could possibly think differently about you”
response "I think it is best if you move out."

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“It’s time for me to be selfish”
response "that is your choice."

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“Don’t touch me”
response "I have no intention on touching you"

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“I’m not attracted to you”
response "I wouldn't be attracted to me either if I were you."

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“I don’t even like the way you smell”
response "Thanks for sharing."

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“I feel trapped, like you’re backing me into a corner”
response "I can understand how you feel trapped."

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“Stop being noble by trying to hold on”
resposne "How do you see me doing that?"

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“I don’t have regret over the OM, so I don’t care if you heal”
response "I understand you feel that way"

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“Don’t trust me!”


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“It’s too late, I have no feelings left for you to try and continue”
response "Yes, It is too late. I wish we would have tried before it got to this point"

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“I can’t give you what you want”
resposne "I am sorry you feel that way."

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“I don’t need you”
response "I understand."

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“I want a divorce”
response "I see many solutions to our problems. If D is the only way for you to be happy, I will not stand in you way."

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“I’m going to call a lawyer to discuss my options”
response "Perfect"

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“I’ll just have to fake it”
response "perfect"

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“I’m not getting any younger and feel like I’m missing out on life”
response "I understand. hopefully you can live an exciting life"

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“My mother died young and I don’t know how much time I have left”
response "I wish she was still alive"

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“It’s not you, I’m broken”
response "It's OK. We are all broken"

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“Separation doesn’t mean it’s necessarily over for us”
response "When we separate, I believe it is best that we move on and not look back"

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“I just don’t feel it right now, I’m wasting time, I’m convinced those feelings won’t return.”
response "I don't think those feeligns will return either. We both have some hard decisions to make."

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“I promise not to see OM, but will not break off all contact with him”
response "That does not work for me."

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“My skin crawls and anxiety skyrockets around you”
response "I understand that. I think it is best if we stop interacting"

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“I feel nothing for you, I’m not angry, I’m just indifferent”
response "I know."

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“I don’t have any love left for you”
response "I understand."

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“I don’t know what to do, I’m so confused”
response "I know, It is OK to be confused."

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“I deleted everything associated with OM from my phone”
response "thanks for sharing"

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“I might be a bad person, but I don’t intentionally try to hurt people”
response "I know"

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“A smart girl always has a backup plan”
response "That is one of the things I admire about you"

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“I want my freedom, I don’t want to have to answer to anyone”
response "I understand."

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“I just want to be single”
response "I understand. Being married is a lot of work"

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“Just let me go”
response " response "You are free to do what you want"

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“I can’t see the forest for the trees”


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“Let’s not get ahead of ourselves”
response "Sounds like a good idea"

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“Our marriage is only legal and doesn’t mean anything”
response "I can see why you feel this way. I wish it would have been different"

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“I am moving out and have no intentions of coming back”
response "Perfect. Would you like help packing?"

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“You didn’t treat me right and didn’t make me feel loved”
response "That must have been hard. I am sorry."

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“I don’t think I ever loved you”
response "I believe you. It's OK. I understand"

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“I know what I’m doing is unethical and immoral, but you are the cause”
response " I am sorry you feel that way. I don't control your actions."

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“This is who I really am”
response "I know"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712