The D has been final for a bit over a year. It was a initiated much before that, but there were lots of issues, biggest being custody. His son is his life as my daughter is mine. But he may have just realized how real it does get when you involve kids. His son kept talking about my daughter after, asking to come over on his dads nights. Maybe he realized that if his son gets attached and this doesn’t work out it would detrimental to him?

I’m just speculating now. He did ask that we just go slow which he said I’ve been amazing with so far.

Even if we move much slower with the kids, I really don’t want to move backwards . That I’m not ok with.

But he is hanging out with me and my daughter on Sunday. So I don’t think he wants to end anything. I think he’s just scared.