I'm sorry she returned the gifts, but maybe she felt that they were too personal for her at the moment. The gift cards...well...she needs them to purchase whatever her fancy is at that time. Now you know not to purchase anything personal or season passes for her in the future. She doesn't want any reminders of your when she looks at those gifts. The woman only wants money, i.e., which are not "in the face" reminders of you.

Good luck with the home offer.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.