Yorkie, you are doing amazingly well. I can't believe how complicated and difficult all of this is, and how unnecessarily awkward your H is being about all these arrangements. Do you think he just has his head in the sand, or this is his way of delaying a divorce he doesn't want, or punishing you for initiating the divorce, or something else? It's mad. I can't believe it wouldn't be in his best interests to tie up the financial matters too.
I am going to look up Bowen therapy. I'm in IC with a particular system that isn't that, but has been influenced by it, and my IC has mentioned there are useful medications that might help me. Thanks for the reminder.
