So, things continue to move forward, --at a snail's pace.
H is a Lawyer and knows how this works but has failed to respond to emails and requests for 2 bits of financial information. So, I saw the L last week and she will request the information and give a 1st May deadline. If he doesn't meet it then she will make the application to court which will the give him 4 months to file the information.
In order to apply to court then there needs to be a Divorce application in process, so I am preparing that. I don't have a marriage certificate (he took everything) so have applied for a new one. In fact, in most things that I need, there is an easy and a hard way and he seems determined to force the harder way on me. Oh well.
Form E - the financial disclosure is a monster!
He has failed so far to give me a valuation of the land development or even tell me the title numbers. So, I approached a long time acquaintance who farms locally who has made a few calls and came last night with a marked map of which fields it relates to. Next step is to find the title numbers, see who it is registered to and present myself to the planning office and see if I can charm my way into them pointing out any planning applications. I have found one but not the other.
There continues to be shenanigans about joint account. I will speak to the mortgage company this week and take over the mortgage payment. It defaulted last month and will do so again if taken from the joint account. I can't afford to take over all the house payments, but need to protect the mortgage as I will need one in the future.
I need to decide what to do about the house ie when to put it on the market. When it sells then unless the financial agreement is signed then the money will be withheld from both of us. It means I can't buy somewhere to live and will have to rent. Not easy with a dog, but I'm sure something will turn up.
Trip booked for long weekend to Prague with a childhood friend. Cheapest we could find!! So looking forward to it.
I've been struggling to switch off my head. It is either thinking of Divorce, houses or work. Have been treating myself to some Bowen therapy and a recommended book and CD for guided meditation. The book is amazing. Never would have known what a complex computer the mind is. I'm a simple soul so it never really occurred to me that just because it was in my mind, doesn't mean it's true.
