Hey Steve, thanks for the links I will definately check them out, the more information I have to better equipped I am to deal with this.
thanks 2much, I am CAUTIOUSLY optimistic about his comments regarding having a baby and his feelings towards me. It's not like we were sitting down having a conversation about it. He VERY hesitantly suggested that MAYBE I could stop taking the pill. Also he was tipsy at the time. Even so, he didn't come right out and say it, I think it was more him voicing the thoughts in his head. But I am very happy that those thoughts ARE in is head... I can't wait for the OW to be gone like in your sitch, so we can move on in our R. Thanks for your prayers, you are in mine too...
2 much, don't get to frustrated. Just remember you need to be patient with your H. He has already made the huge step of letting go of his OW. Maybe do some of the stuff you guys used to do in the beginning of your R. Try and remember how you used to act, in other words act as if you just met your H. I dunno, won't hurt anyways.
Well we'll see if he retreats now after making such big admissions to me... I am ready for it....
Surprisingly, I am not as happy as I was 2 days ago when H said that he didn't want to 'waste' a day out with OW. That made me very happy, whereas last nights comments just give me hope that we are moving in the right direction, I guess I am hesitant to react to them, just as he was hesitant to tell me.
Also I think I need that sitch with OW to be resolved before I let myself get too excited about anything moving forward in our R.
