I understand about needing to take a break from posting. Like you I followed along but did not fee like I had much to offer, so I stayed silent. I found myself drawn back here recently when I was struggling with a few things. I knew that I would get some good advice and words of wisdom.
Sorry to hear about H and what has been going on with all of that. Thankfully he managed to find a temporary job. It just continues to confirm to me that they really are just lost souls going through their everyday life. When I do see H, which is rare, he looks lost and sad and unfortunately continues to struggle in certain areas of his life. I have empathy for him and hope that one day he will be okay.
Like Job said, the most important thing right now is you and your daughter. Glad to hear that she is doing so well. Would love to hear what things YOU have been up to lately.