I've pulled away a little more. Yesterday, that was met with, "Is anything wrong?" So I'm guessing she senses that. I said, not at all, you looked super busy this morning when I got back from dropping the boys, so I just went about my business.
Maybe a different answer next time.
W:"Is anything wrong?" H:"Yes, I would like to get a run in this afternoon, but I am not sure if I will have time because I still have to finish these three projects first bla bla bla"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712