I am just thinking outloud. Other people opinion welcome.


These two stand out:
Originally Posted by curtis7
Out enjoying myself with GAL tonight, W sends texts.
W: “I need to ask a question and I hope you will respond truthfully and quickly. ”
W: “Are you on a date? ”
W: “Totally okay if you are. Just curious. “
H: “No. I haven't given up on us”
Right or wrong response?

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so she could just be open about what she is doing with other men and stop having to hide it.



When you are ready and the opportunity presents itself, flip her words back:


H:"W,The other day, you asked me to be honest with, and I was. I would like you to be open and honest with me. Will you do that?"
W"Bla bla bla bla OK?? bla bla"




Can you handle the truth? Can you listen to W without judgment? Can you validate (IE let her know you hear what she is saying without judging her).

Will it do any good? I do not know. Will it gain you respect? I do not know.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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