Just wanted to post an update.

W texted me yesterday twice, one I didn't respond to. The next just asked how I was doing. I answered very plainly, and she said "good, just checking in :)".

I'm feeling better about myself...most of the time. Nights are the hardest and when I miss her most. I'm considering taking off my wedding ring, getting used to not wearing it before I go back home next week. I know W is not wearing hers, and I think she'd be surprised to see me not wearing mine.


Me 36, W 32
M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs
1st BD Aug 18
2nd BD Feb 19
EA w/ ex Aug 18
potential EA Feb 19
Trial Separation 3/2/19