Persistent Endurance (Part 2)

[curtis7]

I know you feel like you need to "do something" but you don't. DB'ing is more about pulling back and giving her time and space while you work on you.

Great advice, got it.

Be careful about passive/aggressive responses to situations.

I have a tendency for these types of responses, thanks for pointing that out. I need to be more aware of how I choose to respond to turn the negatives into positives.

How's all that snooping making you feel?

Actually it gave me some insightful perspective on her current state of mind and where I stand. After hearing all the lies for so long, it was refreshing to hear her true feelings despite how negative they are towards recon right now. It gives motivation to double down on my 180s and GAL to show her what she’s missing.

I’m also hopeful that her limerence with the 25 year OM could be fizzling if he stops reciprocating. She even mentioned some astrology crap about how there was a meteor shower and shooting stars on the night they met in November and she felt instant attraction when their eyes locked. Then, how last night was a full moon which signaled it might be over. Nevertheless, it seems like she is ready to transfer that fantasy to anyone else, except LBH.

Right, it gets hard to keep track of all those lies. It's easier to be a truthful cheater than a lying cheater. I swear the crap that comes out of their mouths sometimes.

It must be quite the challenge to juggle all the lies in her mind to me, kids, OM, and dating app prospects.