I was listening to a Podcast this morning and it discussed your spouse becoming detached and the unlikelihood that they will return to the marriage. They differentiate between despair which I think my W was going through last year during IC and detachment which I think was the result of my W’s IC coupled with temptations and advances from other men.

Maybe others could listen to the episode below and give thoughts on WW being detached.

Listen to Hell or Highwater Detachment and Despair After An Affair from Healing Broken Trust In Your Marriage After Infidelity in Podcasts. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast...ty/id1156329240?mt=2&i=1000382895796

Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20