As he was taking I did validate his feelings. But I didn’t mince words. Was I wrong? Did I handle it ok?
Wow, you did a great job with that convo! Firm yet loving. You stated your boundaries clearly (not waiting, not relocating) and what would happen to him if he chooses to breach those boundaries. Great job all around! You are talking from a position of strength and control, I imagine that's what shook him a little
Thanks AnotherStander, it felt real good to be firm and state my boundaries. And I wanted him to know I’m dead serious.
I’ll also agree that he was shook. He still seems to be shook later this evening.
Thanks again!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
