I really hate hurting anyone’s feelings. I’d rather get my own feelings hurt.
DV...did you realize you wrote this? Put it in black and white?
I know you're a mom so if you're anything like my mom you would do ANYTHING to take the pain from the world, absorb it, and leave only good behind in the wake.
But this is DATING. Not anything more serious than that. Please strike that sentence quoted above from your vocabulary and live for yourself. Chances are no one will get hurt as long as you treat everyone with respect, honesty, and dignity. If you don't want to date two guys at once that's cool. But don't do it for THEM do it because it makes sense for YOU.