Originally Posted by Living
As he was taking I did validate his feelings. But I didn’t mince words. Was I wrong? Did I handle it ok?


Wow, you did a great job with that convo! Firm yet loving. You stated your boundaries clearly (not waiting, not relocating) and what would happen to him if he chooses to breach those boundaries. Great job all around! You are talking from a position of strength and control, I imagine that's what shook him a little smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57