hey 2much, nice to hear from you. I've been reading your thread too. As long as you are comfortable with it and it is bringing you closer to your goals - go for it.
I am going to tell my H next time HE brings it up that he should be honest with OW. That she deserves to know the truth about our ML and his feelings. Let's see what he says...either way, it's beneficial to me - if she knows she will freak out (she has in the past - that's why he stopped telling her). If he doesn't tell her, then that is one more secret he is keeping from her.....
I have told my H that I ML with him cause I love him and it feels natural to me. However, I don't ever start it, I let him initiate it. He is constantly telling me that we 'should' stop physical contact, even though he doesn't 'want' to. I just say 'okay'. But then he always starts it. This way he can't say that I am the one keeping it going. He is driving himself crazy I think.....that makes two of us I guess hahaha
