I view her desire for some financial independence is good

Part of her journey is figuring herself out

Who she is without you

Have no expectations on it extending to suppprt

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving