Thank you so much for this grounding advice. I will continue to work on myself, being the best version of me (that only a fool would leave), and detaching from the emotion...bad and good!
Much appreciated guys.
Me: 44 Her: 42 T: 22, M: 20 D:18, S:16, S:11 Sep: 6 months in 2002 Sep again: March 15, 2015 (5 months) WAW talk again: January 21, 2019