Thanks H...I am already starting to get to MEH and I really don't think about it too much. Our conversations are very limited to topics about our daughters. I have my girls this week and outside of the 5 min kid exchange I have spoken to her once and that was to let her know how our daughters dentist appointment went. Even that was about a 1 minute in length.
I know I will probably never fully understand and that is actually pretty common amongst us that didn't want the D but it still is very hard to comprehend during those moments when it enters my mind.
As far as OLD goes it seems to me that if someone comes on to you really strong and just immediately inserts themselves into your life they usually just got dumped and are trying to heal. I have had 2 girls do that to me and it fizzled just as quickly as it got started.
