Obviously, I'm hurting like hell inside (some of it deserved anger) but because she continues to be nice and make some moves 'towards' me.
Can you give me some examples on how you perceive her making moves towards you.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
Do I mirror her? Of course I do not pursue - but should I continue to be 'distant' but polite? Or do I soften as she softens.
Distant but polite is always a good way to go.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
Really weird trying to manage this - considering she does't know I know and/or doesn't really feel that much guilt for what is hurting me.. IT would be easier if she was rude and distant to me like other sitches...
Why do you think it would be easier if she was rude or distant?
