After that, I realized I had to keep contact to a minimum with her, for my own mental health. I ignore all text messages unless they are an emergency. I keep my messages on OFW to one or 2 sentences - short and sweet. I don't respond to anything negative or accusatory. This is starting to pay off, and I'm finally getting some peace. XW has reduced the number of OFW messages she sends, and that also makes me wonder if she has a BF - in which case YAY!!!!! She's got something to do with herself!
Holding,
I had a similar experience with my XW and I took the same approach; any interaction was via OFW and everything was kept to a minimum. That really helped.
