Calling him out or asking him for what I want when I have already asked (nagging) is exactly what I'd usually do.
And saying yes to something he doesn't want to do, doing it half-heartedly or resentfully, pretending to forget about it, or blaming me for him not doing it, it exactly what he usually does.
So I am not going to call him out. Not going to mind-read. I am going to see what happens. I am also taking a step back. He doesn't get a wife if he isn't able or willing to behave like a husband.
