Paco dood , hope you are ok today. I have had the exact same things from 8 years ago . “ you said I didn’t k is about phones !!” Get your validating badge . Learn , practice.
Have some sympathy for her , I am sure she is hurting a lot . You have got to be strong for both of you .
Now I still don’t know much about women ( I am learning) they expect us to know what they want. They are expert communicators, we men seem to be more visual and take our clues from body language I guess .