Alright, now I know he is trying to drive me crazy. About a week ago I saw that there was a charge for a magazine on our joint credit card (which he has not used for 2 years and which I pay). This was unquestionably his magazine and does not come to my house. I figured it was probably an auto renew (and the bank has purged the bills from a year ago so I couldn't check). Just now, I see that a few days ago he charged a donation to a political campaign for a candidate running in 2020 (most definitely his candidate so not an accident). Why is he suddenly charging things to this card after 2 years? Is this another of his creepy ways to get me to contact him or start a fight? It is $150 in all. Probably not worth making a stink over, but what's next?