Kate

It is tough

My w would get mad if I did things without her

And mad if she felt pressured to join

I did what Oneart suggested

I would buy the extra ticket and eat the cost

I made it clear

She was always welcome

But I had no expectations that she would come

Sometimes she came

Other times she did not

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving