She has complained before lately that "I talk to her like I am talking to a co-worker closing a business deal" I am not showing emotion when she gets upset or happy. I just try to keep an even tone. Not sure if that is good or bad on this. She has mentioned this numerous times lately.
It's difficult to explain the craziness of a WW, but I'll try here. When she sees that she gets no emotional reaction from you, she feels she's losing her grip on you. Her arrogance suggests that her H should actually "care" that she's upset or happy. Right? I mean, women have always expressed their feelings in order to get a desired reaction from the H. It just funny when you see a wayward W who can't wait to get away from her H, continue to expect him to cater to her feelings.....or to be affected by them. However, we see it all the time right here on the board.
WW's have an arrogant mindset, and IMHO, that's another little something that sets them apart from the WAW. I said it a long time ago and I stick by it. The difference in a WW and WAW is in their mentality.
My son had been recognized at school so I took leave to go tk it. Inforgot except last minute and the W never reminded me. J don’t think she probably knew until recently about the honor he was given today. However, I show up and she shows up after me and sits next to me. During the 1 minute breaks between grades, the instructor had is talk to a “neighbor” about citizenship, accountability, respect, and empathy (CARE) and how we used it this past quarter. She just looked at me and was trying to talk to me about it. I told her I have nothing to say on that one as I am just taking things one day at a time. The next break the instructor had us speak to the neighbor about someone who helped them out. She mentioned the neighbor letting her have a place to stay. I just said my BIL since I could not mention this site. Lol. Anyways, the next break, they had another and I just quit answering or talking to her as it was not conducive. I just took pictures and then said bye to my son when it was over and left. I wasn’t cold towards her but the atmosphere just felt weird and she knew it so j just quit goin along with it for my mental health.
