Sorry that I haven't been here for you. It sounds like things could still go ether way. But it also seems at times that H is leaning more towards you.
Take what H is giving and make the most of your time. But Don't set aroung waiting for H to spend time with you. When H is in a mood, or you can tell he needs time alone. Do something that is just for you.
Keep up with the good work of no pressure and demands. The hard part is the waithing.