My IC is always going on about how I do have needs every time I say I don't want to be needy. It's such a balance isn't it?! I suppose neediness is when you don't articulate your needs properly and react to stuff out of fear instead of stating them. Really needy is a terrible word I think, maybe we need to use insecure or fearful instead. Though again, being insecure or fearful is ok but not if you just react from that place without telling the other person and just dumping all your fears and insecurities on them and blaming them for your own feelings. I hope you sleep well
