Wednesday is the weeknight that he spends with OW. He usually goes out straight after work, they have dinner, drinks etc.... Well, yesterday I got home from work and saw that his gym bag was gone which meant he went to the gym after work instead. He got home from the gym and took a shower. He had gone shopping at lunch for some work out clothes and showed me what he bought. He also surprised me cause he bought me some workout pants. I tried them on and they fit nicely. I thanked him for it. (why is he buying me stuff??)
I asked him if he was going to eat dinner at home or if he was going out for dinner. He said he would eat at home. I made a quick dinner and we ate it together. Then he asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him for some summer clothes. I said sure. We went to the store and actually had fun trying on stuff. He tried on a top that made him look super sexy and I told him so (he bought it, along with every other item I suggested he looked good in). I also bought a top on his suggestion.
We went home and then I said I had to go to the grocery store for some food. I asked him if he was going out? He said probably, I said okay and went to kiss him on the forehead. He pulled away, and I said "what? I can't even kiss you on the forehead anymore?" he turned his head back and indicated for me to kiss him on the lips. So I did, but not just a peck, I kissed him passionately and he responded. Then I left. When I came back he was still there, he helped me unload the groceries then told me that he was leaving. I said okay and started watching tv.
This is positive, he is buying me stuff, asking me to go shopping with him, and I sense him relaxing more around me. This behaviour is driving me crazy cause there are so many indications that he is getting closer to me, but he still goes out with OW. I am not going to ask him what is going on with them or how he feels about me. I hope that things are starting to wind down with her, but I have to remember not to get my hopes up, cause then when he disappoints me I will react badly. NO expectations....
