She has complained before lately that "I talk to her like I am talking to a co-worker closing a business deal" I am not showing emotion when she gets upset or happy. I just try to keep an even tone. Not sure if that is good or bad on this. She has mentioned this numerous times lately.
It's difficult to explain the craziness of a WW, but I'll try here. When she sees that she gets no emotional reaction from you, she feels she's losing her grip on you. Her arrogance suggests that her H should actually "care" that she's upset or happy. Right? I mean, women have always expressed their feelings in order to get a desired reaction from the H. It just funny when you see a wayward W who can't wait to get away from her H, continue to expect him to cater to her feelings.....or to be affected by them. However, we see it all the time right here on the board.
WW's have an arrogant mindset, and IMHO, that's another little something that sets them apart from the WAW. I said it a long time ago and I stick by it. The difference in a WW and WAW is in their mentality.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
