Thanks for the reply. I'm actually going to keep the dog in the case that we do get divorced, I made that a requirement and she agreed. She's just being ridiculous with the co-parenting comment.
I won't try to slow her down anymore. She does work, and does very well - she makes quite a bit more than I do, and I'm doing fine. We moved to our current location for her career when she finished her doctorate, which I supported her through. She then supported me through some additional school, which led to my new career (started in a new industry last year).
All of this has brought up so much emotion, but I haven't taken any steps backwards with my DBing...it's just getting harder each day.
Me 36, W 32 M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs 1st BD Aug 18 2nd BD Feb 19 EA w/ ex Aug 18 potential EA Feb 19 Trial Separation 3/2/19