H....my xw is not over the top nasty but it still amazes me to this day that she seemingly can just write off 17 years together with little or no emotion and be so detached. I am not sure that I will ever be able reconcile that in my mind. The only thing I ever tried to do was be a good husband and father, I provided for our family, was there for our children, etc. and she acts like I have some contagious disease. It is mind boggling to say the least.
