So strange how WAS's become so nasty. I always thought it was an exaggerated cliche. And certainly not how I played my cards. But apparently people don't think they're out of line, they feel they are right. Some strange narrative that they were diminished in the marriage like a fragile flower that was being trampled on, and now they are rediscovering who they are, and becoming horribly abusive is becoming empowered and embracing themselves.

100% agree with how you're handling it. See my last post on my thread, it's about the exact same thing.

Strangely enough I'm going through similar problems with my son and his schooling. That's a page or two earlier on my thread. He's not failing yet, just doing poorly. But school isn't about intelligence, it's about obedience. Man, I wish there was a better way to educate children than classrooms. If I could do it all again I would have moved mountains to have home schooled. I read to my children, talk to them about various issues, and any time something comes up we don't know much about we make it a spot project to learn up on it. Exploring the world should be fun. But I can't do classrooms. Oh well, life will go on. Hopefully he at least graduates high school.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15