I am in the process of booking a birthday trip for my kids in June and I need to purchase event tickets now before they sell out. I am not sure what I should do about my husband? I was thinking of telling him I was booking the trip and asking if he would like to come also? If he says no then I could just book it for myself and the children. I don't want it to seem like I am pressuring him to make decisions about the future though. This balancing act is hard. On the one hand, I understand exactly why I should not apply any pressure. On the other hand, life still goes on and certain things in life require advanced decisions. He's still at home but lives an almost parallel life to me. Days can go by without us seeing each other as he doesn't come downstairs in the morning until I have left for work and he often doesn't come home until I am in bed for the night. Thoughts?
