Have to say with the update you gave about your H to me that sounds more like an actual MLC type deal than being wayward. Unlike many of us where you get the "give me a divorce yesterday" rants, my gut feeling is that your H could want to come back someday. Whether you'd want him back is a different story, but I just read MLC based on your update.
Meh...look you need to let the Euro guys go! No matter what the reason they are just too dang far to consider them as "prospects". I will say just because you haven't heard from the one guy in a while doesn't mean you might not hear from him again. Just let him go and keep on making your best life. As for the Dad at work, for whatever reasons, most likely just not a match...just keep on moving. FWIW Miss Sunshine AGAIN contacted me last night. It is wonderful to get to a point in life where you can have the freedom to choose your paths for yourself by yourself once again.
I can relate to your feelings on waking up some days and being like "I still can't believe they are gone". You have your wonderful daughter and if I get to feeling sad I pour more love into my D4. Definitely agree on being able to share a life with someone. A partner to face all of life's challenges with while also making wonderful memories with. Don't know if I'll have that again either, but it is refreshing to at least be clear of our ex's enough to have a sense of fresh hope and possibilities.
My WW asked last week if I'd be interested in having my D4 for longer than usual while she goes on a trip. Of course I said. For many men who are wonderful fathers and wish they could continue learning to be wonderful husbands, they never even have to hear their wives complete the question. It is always an empathic YES! Perhaps those kinds of men are more special and hard to find than I realize, but they are out there. All I can tell you is that for me any day my D4 is not with me is a day that I wish she was.
