Taking a step back and seeing her as a separate human being (this is where detachment helps) I am noticing her having some Anger Management issues. It seems we are the cause and target of all that anger (from their POV at least)
Giving birth to our child was all she wanted and a year after that she was depressed and angry. Before that she wanted us to be married in our own home. Did that, unhappy again.
Looking back, no matter what I did, she felt there was always something missing.
The psychologist I paid didnt fix that, I cant. I wonder if she will ever come out of the funk and see that only she can make her self happy.
I really tried to give her so much happiness and it was never enough.
It will be interesting to see how much happiness she will find out there in the real world in her separate way, which I hope doesn't happen, but may be coming our way.
B.D in December 2018 Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019 Divorced May 2019 H (me) 49 W (her) 29
