Bubbs, Not to give you any false hope, but my W was the same way first few months. So much anger and resentment. Much of it has now subsided. During the rare times we get together (always at her initiative), we are civil, polite, and friendly with each other. She still wants D, but at least she is now assuming responsibility and no longer casting blame.
paco123, I was thinking about my polite W and your polite W. I realized for my W I think her behavior changed from anger/frustration to kind when I stopped pursuit. Was this true in your case? Or had your behavior been the same?
