I know what you’re going through. They throw us some crumbs and we get our hopes up. The best things is to keep your expectations at zero. This helps when their behavior changes from one day to the next...sometimes from one minute to the next. Keep being kind to your H and continue to work on you. That’s all you can do, is work on you. Sending you hugs!
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together