Second full day in San Diego. Yesterday was whale watching in Newport Beach. Saw a couple of grey whales but even better, hundreds of common dolphins and then four bottlenose dolphins as we were coming back in. Got lots of videos. It was a beautiful day.
Today was the zoo. Talk about a maze. It is also my 12th wedding anniversary so I sent my STBXH a text saying that I couldn’t say happy anniversary anymore so I would just say that it was an amazing day and thanked him for the memories. Honestly meant it too. Life is too short to hold grudges. Can’t say we will ever be friends because friends don’t do what he did but I am also not going to be stay upset about it. It is what it is.
Facebook guy and I continue to text a lot. Sometimes we just make jokes with each other but other times we talk about some pretty serious topics. I find myself liking him more and more and am forcing myself to talk to other people so I don’t like him too much or start to have expectations. I get the impression he is trying to do the same thing. He said he has talked to me more in a week than he talked to his ex in four months. I told him I had him beat and that I have talked to him more than I talked to my ex in four years. Sad but true unfortunately.
Coffee guy still texting me. Not sure what to make of him. He seems way to interested in me for how much contact we have had. I told him I didn’t have a US texting plan so was trying to keep texting to a minimum. So he’s basically been sending me Good Morning and Good Night texts. IDK... I will probably still go out for coffee with him but I feel like his expectations are a bit too high. Hopefully he won’t like me when he meets me and it will be a moot point.
Have also been texting with Jack a bit still. I still think he is too young for me but he is fun to chat with.
Had a nice chat with my MIL last night on the way back from whale watching. Told her I was really happy and surprised at how much better I feel now that I’ve had some time and space. I think she is hoping I start dating Facebook guy. She likes that he is into gardening...lol.
ANyway....break time is over. Got to round up my kids so we can find somewhere to eat. Hope all is well in DB Land. (((HUGS)))
