R2C, I do see that I need to shut up. I need to work on the part that I need to just listen. Whether she is right or not, I just need to listen.... Am I understanding this correctly?
I think so.
You are not having conversations with her to win an argument. You are having conversations with her to UNDERSTAND her better. You are having conversations (IE YOU LISTENING) so she thinks of you differently. Which may lead to her FEELING differently about you.
Are you TRUELY the source of her tears? Or are you a trigger?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
