"none of the other affairs are really that serious" "She's a great co-parent!" "She just doesn't realize that we cannot work on this relationship while she is have EA/PA" "It would seem reasonable that if she were to get int some IC she might just start to realize"
Those are all things you said. Your perspective is out of whack. You love her, that's obvious, or else you wouldn't possibly be able to say things like I quote above.
In time, with work, you will get better. I promise you, but I think you need to get into IC just to have a IRL person looking at you when you say these things.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
