Thanks for the reply. I think I got caught in between validating, standing my ground, and my emotions, but your reply helped me realign - I replied with almost your exact words.
Me 36, W 32 M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs 1st BD Aug 18 2nd BD Feb 19 EA w/ ex Aug 18 potential EA Feb 19 Trial Separation 3/2/19
